My Story

I'm a girl from a small town in Ohio living in a beautiful coastal town in Florida. I'm married to my very supportive high school sweetheart and we have a beautiful fur baby, Hula. I studied interior design in college and after several career reincarnations I am now here, living the unexpected life of jewelry designer and absolutely LOVING it!!! This blog chronicals my journey through this wild and exhilarating and sometimes exasperating world of jewelry making from idea to fruition!

My art is available at Old Florida Gallery and Outdoor Center in Englewood Florida

Thursday, April 28, 2016

No Plated Jewelry For Me, Thanks!!!

If you've ever wondered why I refuse to incorporate plated components in my jewelry designs here's the reason. Plating adds only a minute amount of gold or silver over base metals and when that plating wears off, and it will (the amount of time is dependent upon body chemistry), those base metals now sit against your skin and your body is exposed to those heavy metals. The skin can now absorb those heavy metals, which can be in the body for a looong time! Another reason is that I don't like to waste money! I'd rather be able to wear jewelry for a long time rather than only once or twice before it's garbage!

What's the difference between solid precious metals, filled (i.e. gold filled or silver filled), and plated you may be asking. Solid precious metals (gold, silver, platinum, to name a few) are pure metals with alloys (copper, palladium, nickel, also just a few) incorporated into them during casting to make them harder/stronger and more wearable. Most precious or noble metals are quite soft in their purest states. Filled/fill/rolled gold or silver are created with a substantial layer of solid precious metal applied with heat over a central core of base metal, usually copper or brass. The solid precious metal is usually at least 5% of the overall metal content. I have gold filled antique and vintage jewelry pieces from the late 1800's and early 1900's (back then it was often called rolled gold) that are still in great wearable condition with very minimal to no gold wear through to the base metal. And lastly plated metals. Plating is a chemical or electrochemical process in which a thin layer of gold is attracted to the base metal, usually 0.05% or less of the overall metal content. Everyone's body chemistry is different. My body chemistry is naturally very acidic 😕 I can only wear a piece of plated jewelry once or twice before I'm down to base metal. I always know when the plating is gone when I start feel very location specific skin irritation. This happens a lot with bras at the adjustment points, those components are always plated! Some people can wear plated jewelry on and off for up to a year before they're down to base metal.

Here's a fact you might find Interesting - white gold isn't naturally as white as it appears in jewelry stores! White gold is naturally slightly yellow. Gold is yellow. The alloys added to make gold white, such as nickel and more recently palladium, just aren't enough to make it as bright white as silver (which is the whitest of all of the precious metals) or platinum. White gold is usually rhodium plated to make it appear whiter! And as with all plating it will eventually wear off and you'll need to have it plated again if you want it to look as it did before and plan to continue wearing the piece.

You've probably seen it before, but here's an example of wear through. It looks as like this ring started out in copper, then it was nickel plated, then gold plated. This is a ring I just couldn't pass up it was SO pretty! I absolutely adored it, but I only got to wear it a few times 😔



Friday, October 9, 2015







This darling little butterfly necklace is one of my newest creations! I make them from natural coquina shells I collect from our nearby beaches, each on is unique and one of kind! I've added a little peek at the creation process ; )

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Jewelry Tumbler Care



I use my tumbler pretty much daily, it gets quite a workout! When the steel shot gets dark, sluggish, and less effective I employ a couple of methods for cleaning it, depending on what I have on hand at the time. Apple cider vinegar and a bit of water or soda pop (Coca-Cola, Pepsi, RC Cola, or generics), though I rarely have this in the house. If you plan to use soda pop make sure you pour it into a glass and add a tablespoon of granular sugar first before adding it to your tumbler, or you'll end up with a colossal mess! The sugar will remove the carbonation and you'll be left with just the soda as a cleaning agent.  Be certain to rinse your shot and tumbler thoroughly after cleaning, so you don't contaminate the next batch of pieces you tumble. Side note; I use a little original Dawn detergent and water as the lubricant in my tumbler. It works great, lasts forever, and it's much more cost effective than burnishing compound!

Thursday, August 27, 2015


This pretty much says it all! Some design ideas I get I have a pretty good idea that they'll be great and those are usually the first ideas that pop into my head. Most are at very inopportune times like while I'm trying to center and calm myself with a walk on the beach, just falling asleep, or as random as grocery shopping. The ideas I get while I'm creating the first deisgn are the ones that usually apply to the above. Some are a swing and a miss and back to the drawing board while others are a swing and it's out of the park ;)

Saturday, January 10, 2015

2015

2014 was quite the year! As for most for me there was some good and some bad. I'm truly glad it's over and done and I've been given this clean slate to begin again! 2015 offers the promise of great things; I'm in a fresh new studio, there's a new family member due in Feb (my sister, not me) and I've already begun creating new designs so stay tuned ;) Sending love and light your way, there is hope!!!

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Moving Day...


Labor day weekend was moving day for the garage extension of my studio, so I can now create in a comfortable air-conditioned space = )

Thursday, July 18, 2013

In Print...

I am so proud, honored, and excited to announce my first magazine print feature!  I was contacted in May by the senior editor of The Crafts Report magazine to feature my work in their special eco conscious July 2013 issue!  I excitedly accepted of course and the photo above is of the 2 pages containing my work within the magazine.  If you have the opportunity to peruse the issue, I'm featured in the "Crafts Scene" section page 14 and "FACE Time" section page 50.  To view it online click here and hover over "subscribe", then click "view sample issue", I'm on pages 14 and 54 : )

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

How to talk to artists at Art/Craft Shows - Do's and Dont's


This wasn't written by me, but I found it to be pertinent after participating in many art/craft shows.  I've had similar experiences and felt it needed to be shared! This is a blog post by vlasicstudio

***Warning you've probably done at least one of these***

I visited the Cherry Creek Arts Festival here in Denver today. I go every year. As an artist I was fortunate enough to be chosen to show at this festival (one of the top 3 outdoor art festivals in the country) for 3 consecutive years back in the 2000′s. (I’ve since moved on to strictly gallery exhibits) As I was wandering around enjoying the art, I was struck by the conversations around me, and reminded of the “horror stories” shared by fellow artists (and experienced myself over the many years of doing outdoor shows) about rude and insensitive people, and even well-meaning people who unintentionally insult the artist. On the other side, I see many people who are intimidated by art and feel insecure talking to artists and asking questions. So if you are one of the millions of people visiting an arts festival (or gallery opening, or art walk) this summer, this “How to Talk to Artists” Primer is for you.

Lesson One: Understanding the Artist

We may be somewhat unconventional people, but we are human, just like you. What sets us apart is the intense drive to create. It is what we are made of. We can’t not create. (I apologize for the double-negative) What we make is part of us. The pieces you see hanging on the walls are our “children”. We put our blood, sweat and tears into every one of them. Frankly, it takes (ahem) big balls to put ourselves on display, to open ourselves up to criticism and judgment. No matter what we do, there are going to be people that don’t like it. Being an artist is a hard life. We are all self-employed. We do not have companies to give us regular paychecks, insurance, and security. Most of us also have to do all our own marketing, sales, packing & shipping, and everything else it takes to run a small business. A typical working artist spends 50% of the time on marketing and sales and the rest of the time working on his/her creations. We also tend to put in 50-60 hour work weeks. Make no mistake, being an artist is a JOB, not a fun hobby we do in our spare time. Most of us went to school to learn our craft and earn a degree, and have spend years (in my case, decades) continuing to learn, practice, and get better at what we do, just like any job. It can be a thankless job as well, as most artists make very little money especially in the beginning. It can be a rather humbling career.

Lesson Two: How did these artists come to show at this festival, and what does it take to get here?

With the larger Arts Festivals around the country, this is how it works. There is an application process about 6 months before the festival, with artists submitting images of their work (usually with an average fee of $35) to a jury who selects which artists will be allowed to show at the festival. The competition is fierce. With the Cherry Creek Arts Festival for example, only about 9% of all submitting artists are chosen to exhibit (and of course, the jury fee is not refundable). The artists then pay a “booth fee”, which can be anywhere from $800-1600 depending on the show (CCAF is $850 for a 10 x 10 space for 3 days). The artists then have to supply their own booth and display. Artist’s displays can cost in the range of $1000-$5000, some even more. Many artists also travel great distances to get to the festivals, usually driving with all their art and booth set-up hundreds and thousands of miles, incurring costs for gas, hotels, etc. As you can see, most artists are out-of-pocket for thousands of dollars before the festival even opens.

Here’s what doing a festival can feel like for an artist: Imagine packing up a tent along with all your most valuable possessions, being on the road driving for days, then setting up your tent on an asphalt street with hundreds of other people in 90 degree heat, and placing all your valuables in this flimsy tent. Then, you get to spend 10-12 hours a day for three days standing in that hot tent (you can’t leave except for bathroom breaks and to grab a fast bite), smiling at thousands of people till your face hurts, and hoping like hell people like your valuables enough to buy a few from you. Then, at the end, when you’re dog-tired, you get to pack your tent and things back up and drive all the way back home, or to the next festival and do it all over again.

Lesson Three: What to Never-Ever Ask or Say to an Artist

So you’re at the festival, looking at the art on display. If you’ve read the above, then you know more than most of the people there already (good for you!) and probably have some appreciation for the artists, even if you don’t like their work. Here is the Top 9 List of what to Never-Ever Ask an Artist, and why:

#1 “Can I get a discount?” Or, “Will you take $xyz instead of $abc for this?” First off, this is an immediate insult to the work and the artist. Unlike a flea market, artists DO NOT expect to haggle. These are not store-bought tchotchkes. This is their livelihood and their blood sweat and tears on display. Think of it like this: What would you say if you went into work on Monday and your boss asked you to work at half your usual salary for the week? You’d probably quit.

#2 “Does this come in any other size/color?” Each piece of art is a unique creation by the artist, not a mass-produced item. Again, this question is insulting the artist’s work, however unintentionally.

#3 “Is it finished?” Another one that makes artist’s cringe. If it is on display and for sale, always assume it’s finished.

#4 “How long did it take you to do that?” I can feel artists all around the world shriek in horror at this question. How long it takes to make has no bearing on the value. My favorite answer to this question is a little story about Pablo Picasso. Pablo is having a coffee in a cafe’ when a fan comes up to him, exclaiming how much she loves his work and asks, “would you draw something on this napkin for me?” Pablo does a drawing on the napkin, hands it to her and says, “that will be $10,000″. She cries “$10,000! but it only took you a a few minutes to draw it!” and Pablo replies, ” But madame, it took me a lifetime to learn to draw that way.”

#5 “How did you make that?” This is a touchy one, as it’s all about the context. Often, this question is asked with the intention of, “I’ll go home and make one just like it!” Which is always a bad thing. Inquiring about the artist’s process (ie: “Tell me about your process.”) is ok.

#6 “Your work is just like so-and-so’s.” Ouch. Every artist likes to think they are unique creators. We do not want to be compared to other artists. This one hurts. It IS always ok to ask who the artist is influenced by.

#7 “It must be fun to just paint all day.” and/or “What do you do for a living?” If you’ve read the above paragraphs, you already know why this one is a no-no. They are artists. That’s what they do for a living.

#8 “I want to learn to paint when I retire/have free-time, etc.” This is insulting as it implies that art is a hobby, which to these artists, it most definitely is not. This question goes hand-in-hand with “How can I learn to paint like that?” Just don’t go there.

#9 It should go without saying, but never insult the work. Even if you think it’s hideous. Just keep it to yourself. That’s a person’s heart and soul on display, even if you don’t like it. Comments like, “My 5 year-old could paint that!” are always rude. I’ve had many rude comments thrown my way, such as, “Why would anyone want to hang that on their wall?” (CCAF 2008) and, “You’re painting on top of photographs!” (Spoken very loud and accusingly at my own art opening in 2010) It just plain hurts. That person standing behind you may be the artist, don’t assume he can’t hear you. I’m an artist and see work I don’t like all the time, but I always try and have enough respect for the artist to keep my mouth shut. If I want to discuss the work in a negative way, I wait till we have left the festival or gallery. Always.

OK, if I haven’t completely scared you away from talking to artists at art festivals by now, here are a list of questions that will always be welcome:
 #1 “Tell me about your work.” It’s the perfect question.

#2 ” What/who influences you?” An excellent conversation starter, always welcome.

#3 “What inspired you to create that?”

#4 “What attracted you to working with pattern/the figure/still life’s/animals, etc?”

#5 Sincere complements are always welcome. “Beautiful work”, “well-done”, “great technique” is always nice to hear. I had one man tell me, “This is hands-down the best work of the show.” and I could tell he really meant it. That was 4 years ago and it still makes me smile.

#6 It’s ok to just be silent. (it’s much better than an insincere complement) A person thoughtfully and quietly studying a piece is always welcome. Don’t feel like you have to say something.

A few final notes:

Never take pictures of the art unless you ask the artist for permission first. There are unfortunately people out there who take hi-res images of work to make prints of and sell. Obviously this is a highly illegal copyright violation, but it happens. Also, some folks take pictures thinking they will go home and try and copy the piece (this is theft and copyright violation). Both these scenarios are bad news for the artist. You may just want to take a picture because you think it’s pretty, but the artist doesn’t know that. Ask before you shoot.

And lastly, remember these folks are working hard and are here to sell their work. Don’t take up an artist’s time chatting if you have no intention of buying. They need that time for their paying clients.

Don’t feel bad if you’ve been guilty of one of the “bad” questions. We’ve all been there, even the arts professionals! You are now armed with more art festival knowledge than most, and you’ll never be in danger of unintentionally insulting an artist again. So go forth, explore the arts, and have fun!

Still have questions? This artist will do her best to answer them for you. Just ask in the Leave a Reply section.

PLEASE NOTE: This post has generated a lot of discussion, and that’s a good thing. However, please keep your comments of a constructive nature, and refrain from rude and insulting comments. Thank you.





Friday, January 11, 2013

Reflection...


As I reflect on 2012, the ins and outs and ups and downs, I can't help but let out a sigh and smile.  One because my first full year in business is under my belt and two because I consider it a success.  Of course it wasn't without it stresses, problems, and let downs, however I prefer to focus on the positives and work toward the future.  I met and in some cases far exceeded every goal I set!  I feel as though I spread myself a bit thin though.  I tried a lot of new strategies to get my name (brand) out there, but couldn't really give all that was needed to any one of them, so I in-turn became stressed that I wasn't doing enough, or I was failing at this, that, or the other and there just wasn't enough time in each day.  So this year I'm thinning out and pairing down!  Focusing on what I now know works and what I truly want to work!  I have a lot of new designs in the pipeline and big plans!  So get ready 2013, here I come ready and raring to go!!!

Friday, November 2, 2012

Holiday Wish List Service...


This is a free and easy service I'm offering this holiday season so you can receive the gifts you want instead of another ugly sweater you'll never wear!  It's simple, visit my Etsy shop SSMDesign ~ Jewelry Personified or Facebook page and send me a message with the item(s) you love from my shop and the name and email address(s) of the person(s) you'd like your "wish list" to go to and I'll send an official email to each person : ) (THE NAMES AND EMAIL ADDRESSES PROVIDED WILL BE USED FOR THIS PURPOSE ONLY!!! Your loved ones will not receive spam or further communications from me unless otherwise requested!!!)

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Old Borrowed and Blue as Inspiration...


If you've ever pondered the origin of my inspiration of my "Sands of Time" shake necklaces  this post will put your curiosity to rest.  A little more than 14 years ago I married the love of my life and high school sweetheart wearing the lovely necklace pictured above.  It was my old, borrowed, and blue compliments of my mom from her jewelry collection from days past.  The crazy thing was that when I asked about the necklace, we both remembered it being broken, but when she finally found it it was completely intact and ready for me to wear on our wedding day.  We're both still baffled by it to this day, I guess it was meant to be!  She ended up gifting the necklace to me and many moons later it inspired what I consider to be one of my best designs thus far!  I am continuing to evolve the original design and now offer many different shape options as well as pendant filling variations including beach sand, gold flakes, rough diamonds, and the newest are faceted diamonds and gemstones in a multitude of colors!  I am also currently working on designs to expand the line to include bracelets and earrings!


Sunday, July 29, 2012

Friday, June 29, 2012

Back From Hiatus...


Here she is, my brand new niece who just couldn't wait until her due date.  I am blessed in that I own my own business and could close up shop for a bit to spend some very valuable time with her just after her birth : )  I am happy to report that she and mommy are doing very well and thriving!!!  She is such a good baby and I am so in love her, it was quite difficult to leave!  My solace is knowing that I will be able to see her again in a few weeks when she returns to Florida with my sister and my mom!  It was incredible to watch how much she changed just from day to day during my visit.  She was born with very dark hair and eyes and 14 days later her hair is markedly lighter and her eyes are turning blue like her momma's.  She will be a very different baby when I see her again next month!  I'm back in the swing of things now, all orders placed in my absence have been made and shipped and I am back to business as usual.

Thursday, May 24, 2012

It's Really Happening...





I've held off in announcing this huge news until the deal was done and now I am ecstatic to proclaim that SSMDesign ~ Jewelry Personified is officially a successful business!  I got my first wholesale order and it's ready to ship, so you can now visit Dragonflies Handcrafted Jewelry and Gifts in Saint Augustine, Florida to see, hold and purchase my jewelry in person!  I've had some false starts, but this is real and I feel like Pinocchio must have felt the day he became a real boy, I couldn't be more proud : D  Hopefully this is the first of many!!!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Much Ado About Nothing (kind of) ...






After spending much too much time virtually chasing my tail yesterday trying to track down an international package mailed April 3rd that had not arrived, I've been forced to make changes to my shipping policy yet again.  If you've read some of my other posts you know this is not the first time the US Postal Service has let me down.  Every shipment is important, my jewelry designs are like my babies.  I imagine, create, give birth to, and nurture each piece, but some are more time sensitive than others!  Many are for baby showers or weddings and though they've been ordered in plenty of time, it ends up being a close call once they leaves my hands.  The good news is, she received the package today.  The bad news is, international shipping with the US Postal Service is a crap shoot at best!  I understand that we shouldn't really expect them to be held responsible for a package once it leaves their facilities and enters customs, but at least claim some accountability!  If you're gonna charge $18 for priority service, and the word service should be taken with a grain of salt here, we should at least receive something for our money.  This is precisely how the USPS is putting themselves out of business, but then what are our alternatives!?!  Fedex and UPS prices are double and triple or DHL, no thank you, they can't even find my house (call me for directions, hello ever heard of google maps) and I live in a large development!  The point is, we need more and better shipping options!!!  I'm not going to bore you with all of the details.  What I will say, is that I haven't had a lot of overseas sales, but I appreciate my international customers and I hate that I have to punish them by only offering express service, however I need to have some recourse.  If she hadn't received her gift, I would have been out the money to make it, ship it, make it and ship it again.  And as a small business I don't have those kind of margins!!!  At least with express international packages can be tracked and insured, but the cost is ludicrous at $38.  Anyway, as you can see, I have not come this decision lightly.  I'm just doing the best I can do with the tools I've been given, and these tools should be reinvented : (


Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Accomplishments...





This is a pretty big day for me as I've just finished creating my very first made from scratch ring!  Learning to prong-set gemstones has been a long-time goal finally realized : )  I still have a lot to learn and I'm looking forward to every wonderful frustrating moment!  I am currently on week 3 of a 5 week jewelry design course at Art Center Manatee with Wendy Thurlow.  The class itself is very laid back and Wendy allows us to suggest what we'd like to learn and I asked for prong setting, of course!  I thought the class would teach me to cut seats in the prongs of pre-made mounting, but I was definitely mistaken!  Last week we learned how to build a ring from the band up, so to speak.  So everything you see in the photos above was created by me (with the exception of the sterling and the apatite gemstone), from the band to the prong mounting, to the texture and I am pretty darn proud of myself I must say!!!  And though it may not be perfect, I think it's very good for my very first attempt : D 
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